How many times do we struggle to truely with loving your partner and ourselves without losing who we are? First steps is to encourage yourself and self- love yourself. We have remember as humans we always helping others with their imperfections and forget about our own imperfections. We have to remember it okay to be selfish about your emotional health in your relationship. It definitely very easy to have a lack of knowledge of loving yourself who and truly are loving on others instead of ourselves. Many times we dont want to face reality of our own imperfections because we are running away from our flaws. Just Remember Do The Work to Continue To Love You First.